Northern New Jersey · New York Metro
Find community.
Be yourself..
A welcoming social and peer-support community for transgender, nonbinary, gender-fluid, cross-dressing, questioning, and gender-diverse adults—and those who support them.
Second Saturday monthly7:00–11:00 PM
Northeastern Bergen County, NJA comfortable, private meeting location
Privacy comes firstDetails are shared with confirmed guests
There is a place for you here
You don’t have to have everything figured out.
Come as you are, explore at your own pace, and connect with people who understand. Pathways brings friendship and peer support together in a relaxed social setting.
TransgenderNonbinaryGender-fluidCross-dressingGender-questioningPartners & allies
“Come exactly as you are—or as you’re ready to be.”
A warmer kind of support
Connection without pressure or judgment.
Pathways is not a clinic or counseling service. We are a community of peers who gather to talk, listen, laugh, learn, and enjoy time with people who respect one another’s journeys.
- A private, comfortable setting
- A changing area available before meetings
- Partners, significant others, friends, and allies are welcome
- No expectation to dress, label yourself, or share more than you choose
Your first meeting
A simple, private welcome.
We know reaching out can feel like a big step. We make the process clear, discreet, and comfortable from the beginning.
1
Say hello privately
Send a confidential message and tell us as much—or as little—as you’re comfortable sharing.
2
Receive the details
We’ll answer your questions and privately provide the meeting location and arrival information.
3
Come at your pace
Arrive early to use the changing area, bring someone supportive, or simply come and meet us.
Community close to home
Serving Northern NJ and the New York metro area.
Our Bergen County location offers a welcoming regional gathering place for gender-diverse adults who may not have a community nearby—or who simply want one that feels like home.
Travel times vary. The exact location remains private for the safety and comfort of attendees.
People join us from across the region
Bergen County
Passaic County
Hudson County
Rockland County
Westchester County
New York City
Take the next step
You deserve community that sees and welcomes you.
Have questions about attending, privacy, changing on-site, or bringing someone with you? Reach out confidentially. A Pathways member will help you feel prepared.